Real Men

You just need to be real

You Don’t Have to Be a Church Guy to Heal

You’re doing what men do – Working hard. Carrying pressure. Taking hits in silence.

From the outside, you look solid. But inside, you feel like something’s off.

Introduction

About the Book

Win Without Losing What Matters Most isn’t a self-help gimmick. It’s not a churchy sermon. And it’s definitely not a guilt trip.

It’s a raw, honest, step-by-step blueprint to help you:

It includes a 30-Day Challenge that helps you actually live this out—without fluff, pressure, or pretending.

Author

From the Author

I was raised Catholic until about 4th grade… And I didn’t step inside a church again until I was 26

Honestly, I resented religion for a long time.
I saw too many people talk about faith but not actually live it— or worse, use it to feel superior while secretly struggling themselves.

I don’t approach writing—or life—that way. I see men as men. Valuable. Powerful. Unique. Whether you’ve made great choices or painful ones… you matter. In the Kings in Christ community, we don’t preach down to anyone. We don’t play spiritual games.

We walk together. We lead together. We laugh, cry, mess up, and grow—side by side. You don’t need to be religious to read this book. You just need to be open.

And if you are… I think this might meet you right where you are. -Waikiki Paulino-

Who It’s For

This Book Is for You If

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You feel disconnected—even though life looks successful

02

You’re quietly exhausted from trying to “keep it together”

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You’re not into church, but you’re open to something deeper

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You want to lead your home, your life, and your people—well

Benefits For You

What You’ll Get

30-Day Challenge

A structured path with daily steps that help you reset, reflect, and rebuild your life.

Companion Journal

A practical guide for capturing insights, tracking growth, and gaining clarity along the way.

Honest Questions

Simple but powerful questions designed to uncover blind spots and break through barriers.

New Language

Fresh truths and principles that redefine strength, foster healing, and give purpose real meaning.

Get It Now

Take the First Step

Start rebuilding what matters now. One day. One question. One decision at a time.

Reviews

What Men Are Saying

I didn’t expect to relate this much. But it hit me right where I needed it.

Ethan Walker IT Manager
Success without peace is still failure. This book taught me that real winning means rest, honesty, and purpose — not burnout.

Peter L.
A great reminder of what matters most — faith, family, and friends. Practical wisdom with scripture and real-life guidance.

Alan M.
A revelation for men who think they’re winning but are really just surviving. Honest, convicting, and perfect for group reflection.

Jose M.

The Real You

You Don’t Need To Fake Strength Anymore

You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re just ready for something real.